Dating is one of God’s ways to get to know someone better especially your partner, through dating you get to know more of them, you get to know more about the person’s interests, likes, dislikes and maybe even more. Once you’ve known better about that individual, that person that you wanted to share your time and days with together, you get to take a step up the ladder for your relationship and indeed get together as a couple. Though honestly speaking, dating doesn’t have to stop after you have established a commitment to each other, no. dating just doesn’t end up there. For after the beginning of your relationship, dating never ends. It continues until you get to know a lot about your partner and keep the fire in your relationship with the help of a few dates.
Once you are committed to the dating stage of your relationship, you still have to remember that dating just doesn’t stop after you have established a relationship with your partner. Going out with your partner once in a while helps in keeping the fire in your relationship burning. A few dates here and there will keep the memories of the first time you get to know each other, it helps couples reminisce and go back to those memories and share it together again, although it will be a different level. Remember, you wouldn’t have ended from where you are right now if it isn’t because of dating. So just keep on the fire going by making time for each other. It doesn’t hurt your time, your energy or your effort to keep the fire burning.
Most couples once committed, forgot that simple efforts from their partners meant a lot. Making your partner happy doesn’t only mean fancy dates, expensive wines, and a bundle of flowers or oversized stuff toys. You can make them happy by doing simple things, like leaving a note on how beautiful they are when they sleep or how cute their snore is. It would already mean a lot. Making their coffee or making them breakfast would already be great. Just by making your partner feel special, be a queen or a king for a moment would already make them feel like they are the luckiest person in the world. Or just planning a date tonight or every other day would also make the fire and keep it burning. Reminiscing those times wherein both of you had been clumsy and were acting like a fool just so to impress one another on your first and second dates will make you realize and laugh at the times that you thought were disastrous.
With those moments that you’ve shared together on your dating stages will make you laugh. So why stop when you’re already in a relationship. Go on, create a new memory. Go out and date, take some time for yourself and for your partner to enjoy the things that you did when you were just getting to know each other.